Bondage Tips You Should Know
Have you considered tying your partner up with rope? Or being cuffed yourself? It's a gimmick that more people than you'd imagine are interested in attempting. Nevertheless, as alluring as the idea of bondage is, it can also be rather frightening.
When you initially start, you have a lot of questions. What type of rope are you getting? What regions of the body are safe to bind? How do you tell your lover what you like and dislike?
What is Bondage?
In a kind of BDSM known as bondage sex, one person binds up their partner in a sexual position. The couple might choose a straightforward or complicated approach. Some are more physically demanding and call for specialized bondage gear. Other bondage positions are variants of the doggy style or missionary.
Tips Before Doing Bondage Play
1. Establish basic rules in your relationship.
Starting a new sexual journey makes discussing what's happening more crucial than ever. Before participating in positive bondage play, you and your spouse both should agree on what you're comfortable with. Have honest and open communication with your lover about the roles you're both drawn to so that you both feel at ease while exploring.
2. Using Safe Word
Bondage play is built on trust, security, and mutual agreement. However, things may quickly escalate, and it can be difficult to tell if the other person is taunting or genuinely begging that the game be stopped. Every bondage practitioner should have at least one safe word with their partner, something that either person can say to indicate that a boundary has been passed and a break is required.
3. Take it One Step at A Time
For new users, the sensory overload that comes with bondages might be unnerving. Couples can start by restraining only one part of their bodies, like their wrists, and then work their way up to more complex restraints as they become more confident and comfortable.
4. Begin lightly.
If you’re unfamiliar with bondage, attempt mild BDSM actions before you acquire a sophisticated rope system. A blindfold and some wrist cuffs are practical, affordable pieces of equipment that you may keep using as you go to more complex bondage play if you decide to purchase them.
5. Provide aftercare.
Aftercare is the period spent checking on a person's mental and physical needs after having sex in a bondage situation. Taking the time to talk about sex acts and offer confidence might be helpful because some sex activities can be mentally and physically exhausting.
Sexy Bondage Positions You Should Try
1. Standing Bondage
When the submissive partner is standing, their legs are extended with a spreader bar attaching their ankles to shackles, and their wrists are bound behind their upper body—often attached to a wall or a ceiling. In this posture, the dominant might grab them from behind and use a penis or dildo to penetrate them.
2. Rear Entry Standing
With your feet positioned shoulder-width apart for improved balance, stoop down and have your partner tie your wrists to your ankles.
To prevent you from falling over, have your lover enter you from behind while keeping their grip on your hips. To increase clitoral stimulation, use a couple of hands-free vibrators.
3. Rocking Horse
Have your spouse go on all fours and sit back down. Sit with your back to your partner's front and loosely tie your wrists together behind their back. Then, bend your knees so that your legs are next to your partner's and straddle their thighs. So, instead of using their arms or legs, your partner might thrust by lifting their hips.
4. Chair Bondage
The body parts of the submissive are bound to a high-back chair in this kind of bondage. Their arms are often bound behind the chair's back, while their legs are chained to the chair's legs. This enables oral sex or riding by the dominant.
5. Downward Dog
Assume a posture similar to leapfrog for this one, but have your partner bind your hands behind your back as you spread your legs. Your body should lie flat on the mattress, the ground, the kitchen table, or anywhere they want, and they should kneel between your thighs and enter you from behind. After that, request that they gently rub your clitoris with one hand.
6. Ball Tie
In a classic ball tie, the submissive spouse is tied with their hands and knees curled under their chest in the fetal position. You may put a ball gag in their mouth.
7. Wide Open Position
Another terrific bondage sex position for beginners that leaves the victim delightfully exposed and open to any malicious ideas their partner may have.
As the person is lying on a bed, have them stretch their legs as far as they can safely go and then bring their hands as near to each other as they can without causing discomfort. Bending your knees will assist keep them comfy, and it will also provide you with a good reference for how to control them. Then, wrap bondage tape around their wrists and ankles or thighs. As a guide, use their naturally comfortable position.
8. Valedictorian
First and foremost, prepare your shackles, whether they be the previously stated under-the-bed method or just scarves or rope. As you are in a missionary position, have your spouse handcuff your wrists to the bed frame or over your head. Next, form a V with your legs and lift them toward your head. Let your spouse assist you by pulling your ankles back (to the extent that it feels comfortable) and holding them in place as they thrust.
The Valedictorian is a classic because it provides great G-spot stimulation in conjunction with a decent stretch and is simple to execute.
9. Headboard Missionary
Put the individual who is being restrained in a comfortable posture on a bed and have them place their hands above their heads. After gently wrapping a piece of tape around each of their wrists, mount the finished pieces to the headboard. Then, make them vigorously tug and pull against the tape to check for any pinching or numbness that may be occurring.
10. Knees to Chest
With your knees to your chest, have your lover tie your ankles and calves together to introduce bondage most effectively. Next, while your spouse penetrates you while you are on your back, cross your legs over their shoulders. Use those shackles or perhaps handcuffs, and have your spouse tie your hands over your head.