10 Fascinating and Common Sexual Fetishes
First, we need to understand what fetish, specifically in BDSM, implies.
A Sexual Fetish: What Is It?
A fetish is a sexual need that is triggered by a non-typically sexual object or body part, such as shoes or feet. Men are more likely to have them.
Many fetishists find that in order to get sexily aroused, have an erection, and have an orgasm, they need to be in close proximity to the object of their attraction or to be daydreaming about it, either by themselves or with a partner.
What distinguishes 'kink' from a 'fetish'?
Although the phrases "fetish" and "kink" are sometimes used interchangeably, a kink refers to a person's enjoyment of a behaviour or action that deviates from the "norm" of "conventional" sex, such as the usage of handcuffs.
The term "fetish" is really defined as "a type of sexual desire in which fulfilment is abnormally connected to a particular object, piece of clothing, a portion of the body, etc.
About anything may be a fetish for someone.
Here are a few typical fetishes:
1. Role-Playing
With your partner, you can role-play a sexual fantasy either once or as part of an ongoing fantasy.
There are several forms of role-playing, including:
Age play is a type of role-play when one or both participants pretend to be (and enjoy being) someone else's age. If you've ever called a partner "baby" in bed, there's a good chance you've already engaged in what may be referred to as ultra-lite age play. A further typical illustration is the "daddy dominant-baby girl" scenario.
Interrogation role play is also a type of role-playing. Those that enjoy the kink will play either the dominant, who is in command of the questioning, or the submit, who is held hostage and is keeping a secret.
The dominant will test the submit with BDSM toys and instruments like restraints, sensory deprivation devices, and floggers such as hoods or blindfolds to gather knowledge or power. Each "torture strategy" becomes more intense as the play progresses. Costumes may be used to enhance the authenticity of the role play.
2. Lingerie
One of the most popular obsessions is around lingerie, which may be on your wardrobe right now. Lingerie has become a fetish when someone requires it to be included in a sexual environment to fully participate or get off, even though many individuals are attracted by gorgeous undergarments.
3. Pregnancy Fetishism
Apart from the fact that orgasms and having intercourse near a due date may aid in the induction of labour, some have blatant pregnancy fetishes: the romantic desire for a pregnant person. Some partners may find they have one when their spouse becomes pregnant, but others are drawn to the rotund baby bump regardless of who is carrying the body or baby. Because, according to the same stringent definition, a fetish is an attraction to an item or body part, pregnancy fetishists are obsessed with the look of a big, round belly.
4. Cuckolding
To do the act, one must either see their spouse having sex with another person or hear rumours about their lover having sex with another person. Usually, the intention is to humiliate. The partner's desire for someone else above them makes the person watching or listening seductive. They find the excitement of being duped and engaging in prohibited behaviour to be stimulating.
Although it isn't a rule, cuckolding often entails a guy who cosplays wanting the other man over his spouse or boyfriend while his female partner—whether it's a wife or girlfriend—has sex with another man.
5. Foot Fetish
One of the most widespread fetishes in the world is Podophilia, the scientific word for a foot fetish. A foot fetish, also known as foot partialism, is when you are sexually attracted by feet. Individuals who have foot fetishes may find it attractive to see feet in particular types of shoes, such as high heels, they may find it enjoyable to massage or toe-suck someone else's feet, or they may like to have their feet adorned with a tattoo or a new pedicure.
6. Orgasm Control
This fetish entails putting a stop to orgasm just before the point of release. Yes, controlling your orgasms takes some physical and mental discipline. Yet, after you've mastered it, the fluctuates of pleasure building up to the climax feel pretty darn fantastic.
7. Tentacles
You cannot have sex with a genuine octopus or an octopus-like monster because octopuses are animals and cannot consent. Yet, octopus-like monsters do exist in tentacle porn, which you may undoubtedly watch and enjoy. It's exciting not just because it's so alien and prohibited, but also because it meets some very basic fantasy motifs, such as bondage and multiple penetrations, according to some specialists.
8. Gagging
Gagging is the act of slightly choking on anything to the extent that gagging noises are produced. Those who have penises frequently like it when their partner gags on them, especially if they know that their penises are large enough to cause gagging sounds. Something tiny can also make you gag—it doesn't always require a huge object to accomplish so.
There is an emotional danger with anything, therefore you probably shouldn't be doing it if you can't talk about gagging, electrocuting, or whipping your spouse.
9. Wax Play
Hot wax, typically from a candle, is dripped or spilt over a partner during wax play. You don't want it to occur without planning and communication. Yes, it is possible to utilize it in a BDSM situation to evoke dread and feeling in a private setting.
Use paraffin or soy candles instead, which pool wax gradually as they burn rather than instantaneously hardening when placed over the body. This will allow you to play with the wax before it stiffens.
10. Bondage
A kind of constraint is bondage. It's a sexual act that comes under the BDSM label, which stands for "bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism" as well as a collection of typical sexual fantasies. Some individuals prefer having their spouse tied up, while others enjoy doing both. A switch is someone who loves playing both the dominating and the submissive roles.
Bondage is alluring because it combines physiological and psychological sensations, whether it involves rope, cuffs, a spreader bar, or a blindfold.
