Things You Should Know Before Buying a Dildo
Things You Should Know Before Buying a Dildo
Purchasing a dildo may be a liberating and private decision. Whether you want to spice up your relationship, spice up your alone adventures, or explore your wants, choosing the proper dildo is critical for a fulfilling and safe encounter. There are various important factors to consider before buying that dildo you're eyeing in an adult store.
1. Choose your dildo carefully.
You may already own a dildo, in which case you may skip this step! If you don't have one yet, you're probably aware that there are several sorts of dildos available—even an astounding quantity. When selecting a dildo, consider the following factors: material, size, form, anal safety, and whether you want to use it freehand or with a harness or strap-on.
Similarly, there are several materials from which to pick. Most sex toy materials may be divided into two major categories: porous materials and nonporous materials. Porous materials include microscopic openings (similar to pores) that can host bacteria, fungi, and other muck. Nonporous materials are often preferred for dildos, especially those that will be shared with others. There are additional dildos made of glass, silicon, and other materials.
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2. Dildo can be used by anyone.
There is a widespread misperception that dildos are solely used by cisgender lesbians. That is not the case. Dildos can be worn, received, and enjoyed by people of various genders and sexual orientations. Using a certain sex item or liking specific sex activities does not change your sexual orientation or gender identity.
3. Dildo can help you figure out what kind of stimulation you enjoy.
A penis is a very sexy symbol for certain individuals. Others find wearing or being penetrated by a realistic dildo to be extremely validating of their gender identity or sexual orientation. Determine whether you like vibrations or penetration with a realistic dildo. Also, be aware of your preferred texture; do you favor the sleek hard feel of glass or the flesh-like feel of silicone? Learn more about the many sorts of dildos.
4. Dildos are also suitable for strap-on play.
A harness is something you wear on your body to which you connect your dildo in order to penetrate a partner. It commonly wraps around your pelvis, anchoring your dildo where a biological penis would be, but there are also harnesses that wrap around your chest, wrist, thigh, foot, forehead, and other areas. It all depends on how much control you want to have over it.
Strap-on dildos often come with a comfortable harness and a soft dildo, making them an excellent choice for your bawdy antics. Some dildo sets include a soft silicone-made dildo and an adjustable harness, making them perfect for novices. Some sets are brightly colored. Whether you want some pegging or lesbian sex, this nasty toy will help you achieve orgasmic bliss.
5. Start small!
This is particularly important if you are new to vaginal and anal penetration. It will seem larger no matter how little it appears online, in your hand, or on the store shelf. If you're new to anal or vaginal penetration, we recommend starting with anything no more than 1 inch in diameter at its thickest insertable point.
6. Use a lot of lubricant.
You only need to ensure that the lubricant you select is suitable for your dildo and the condoms you use with it. The most important guideline to remember is that silicone-based lubes cannot be used with silicone toys (the substance is ruined), and oil-based lubes can deteriorate condoms and render them useless.
Because most dildos are composed of silicone, using water-based lubrication with your silicone toys is recommended. This is because water-based lubricant, as opposed to silicone-based lubrication, will not damage the silicone substance. You may also refer to the toy's instruction booklet for further information about the material.
7. Discover your preferred sex positions using dildo.
This applies to both coupled sex and enjoying your dildo on your own. Try easy sex positions that allow you to become acclimated to the strap-on for partnered action, especially if you're the one wearing it. Basic positions such as missionary, all fours, or standing near the bed while your spouse rests on its edge let you adjust or direct the strap-on with your hands as needed.
It's important to find a position where you can reach the dildo and manipulate it in the direction you want for solo play (or coupled play without a harness).
